Moving forward…


Spring is finally upon us and it is beautiful outside! I have been busy in the last month and am excited to share my progress with you. Grab a cup of coffee and relax as we catch up.

I had a great follow up appointment in Boston with my plastic surgeon and the foot continues to heal. It is a slow process as I don’t heal as quickly as the average person due to the damage to my leg from radiation. Each time I have these appointments where there is progress, I leave feeling as though it is a huge victory. For so long, my appointments were filled with unsettling news of needing another surgery or hospital stay so I celebrate these victories!

I had the opportunity to meet with a surgeon in Pittsburgh for a second opinion on the upcoming hip/joint replacement and mega prosthesis surgery. Because this is such a big surgery, I decided to get a second opinion. My orthopedic surgeon is amazing and I am confident in her skills, but for me, I believe in second opinions. There are many things to consider and evaluate. I have done so over these last two years, and I appreciate the valuable advice from experts in this field. I never want to look back on this journey and wonder if I could have done something else or met with another surgeon to determine if my treatment plan was the best treatment plan for my situation.

The surgeon in Pittsburgh agrees with the treatment plan and we discussed the many concerns that we all have. Given the damage to my leg from radiation, will this surgery be a success? Will the hardware fail again? Will I get another infection? Can the leg support the hardware? Will I walk again? Can we save the leg? All excellent questions! At this point I plan on moving forward with the big surgery and will maintain a positive attitude that it will be a success and I will be walking again. Sure, I may need crutches or a cane for the rest of my life, but I am ok with that. As this surgeon said, I don’t have a lot of options so I need to move forward. Amputation at the hip will lead to a completely different lifestyle and that needs to be a last resort.

Someone asked me if I always get a second opinion, so let’s talk about that. I don’t always get one. However, I have a team of surgeons who work together in my treatment plans so I feel very comfortable with most decisions. Between my orthopedic, vascular, and plastic surgeons, they discuss what seems to be best and we are all in agreement. It’s one thing to agree on hyperbaric oxygen therapy and another to agree on such a big surgery as the mega prosthesis.

You have to trust your gut and do what you think is best for YOU. Never feel as though you don’t have enough time for a second opinion or feel as though your doctor will be offended. If you have the right surgeon, as I do, they will encourage you to get a second opinion and feel confident in the treatment plan.

As I mentioned in my first post, I met with a surgeon in my area early on who was just awful. No bedside manner, spoke to me as if I was an idiot, and told me that I didn’t have time for a second opinion. Even though I was worried about the situation, I wanted and got a second opinion. And I certainly did not let that person operate on me. I thank goodness that I got a second opinion and met my fabulous vascular surgeon in Boston. He took a different approach. First, angioplasties. Clearing the blockage was important, and I now have two stents.

I am a big believer in trusting your instincts. When you feel that tugging inside telling you something is amiss, trust it! You may need or want something to be fixed or done right away but those warning signs are there for a reason. Over the last two years, my instincts have proven beneficial to me. I have had that feeling of something being wrong and each time I headed to my doctor or emergency department and as a result, it turned out that I had an infection that required a hospital stay or I needed emergency surgery.

Next up for me is a quick overnight stay for a vascular procedure to ensure that the stents are working properly and that I have optimal blood flow. If things continue to improve and the foot completely heals, the big surgery could just happen this summer. While I am excited that I may be walking again, I am also terrified about such a big surgery.

As I said, we must move forward. If we aren’t moving forward, we are idle and where is the progress in that?!

Tell me, what keeps you moving forward during difficult situations?

Until next time, be well and go out and do a random act of kindness.





Picture – my own.


6 thoughts on “Moving forward…

  1. Julie, that is wonderful news. I can understand your being nervous about the BIG surgery, because, it is, in fact,a BIG surgery. However, I’m sure you’ll come through it just fine. That’s not to say it’ll be a picnic, but you are a STRONG, POSITIVE, CONFIDENT person, and I’m SURE you’ll do well.

    You asked how we are able to move forward during difficult times. The timing of that question isn’t very good for me because I do NOT know HOW I’m moving forward after losing Erik, my only child just 14 weeks ago. In the past, however, it was HOPE that kept me moving on. The hope that things would not always be this horrible, and that things WOULD get better. And, they always DID get better.

    As mother’s we LIVE for our children. I no longer have Erik to live for, so I have NO purpose to live anymore. I’m TRYING to find a purpose for living, but I keep coming up BLANK.

    AGAIN, Julie, your news is wonderful, and I’m certain you will do just fine.

    I love you, Robin ❤️


    1. Robin,

      Please know that there are so many people who love and care about you. I can’t imagine what you are going through. It takes courage to talk about your pain. Maybe the purpose to keep going is to share your story and inspire others.

      I am always here for you! Stay strong my friend. Take each day as it comes. Each new day is filled with new hope and new possibilities.

      I love you!

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  2. I’m glad to hear you’re making progress! Even small steps are welcome when you’re going through something that difficult and drawn out.

    I’m a planner, so what keeps me moving forward during difficult situations is having a plan to get out of it. But, I don’t necessarily need the full plan, sometimes I just need the next step. Once I get there, the question again, what’s the next step? Difficult situations can be overwhelming if you try to wrap your head around the whole issue all at once.

    The key is to always have a little goals getting you to the big goal. The little goals give you a sense of accomplishment and something to celebrate along the way. They help you stay positive

    Based on your posts, I’m singing to the choir 🙂


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